Be a Dating Optimist February 21, 2013

Need help getting psyched for your search for The One? Try these smart strategies for a more positive mindset.

By Amy Spencer

Recently, I had a string of bad dates. One was with a man who couldn’t stop pointing out my flaws (specifically, “You have really short nails” and “Do you always laugh like that?”). | more…

how to be a dating optimist

The Science of Optimism February 20, 2013

“The Science of Optimism” is an ongoing blog series focused on the bright side of dating in 2013. The series will feature posts by Dr. Helen Fisher, biological anthropologist and scientific advisor for Chemistry.com.

By Dr. Helen Fisher

Would you call yourself more optimistic than most people? Chemistry.com singles in cities like Hoboken, NJ, Redondo Beach, CA, and Santa Fe, New Mexico answered “yes” through our personality test, and I can definitely see why these singles are looking on the bright side! These men and women have several traits in common: they are confident that their way of doing things will work out; they have a plan for where they want to be in five years; they never enter any competition expecting to lose; and when they do lose, they focus on how they can do better next time.

Here is the full list of The Most Optimistic Singles in America| more…

Optimism

The Biology of Love: Dr. Helen Fisher at TEDxEast February 13, 2013

Can your choice of mate be predicted by science? Biologist Dr. Helen Fisher profiles the four chemicals that affect personality and shows how data from online dating sites could unravel the mysteries of human attraction.

Couples on chemistry vs. compatibility February 8, 2013

By Lisa Cericola

So your latest crush is an amazing kisser, but you had absolutely nothing to talk about over dinner. Or, you two have tons in common, but your attempt to go for a kiss turned into an awkward hug instead. | more…
Couples Chemistry