August is National Romance Awareness Month, so we here at have discovered the nation’s Top 10 Cities to Find a Romantic Man.  Using our data based on the personality types of American singles, we uncovered the cities with the highest concentrations of passionate single men- and you may be surprised by where they are romancing!

We asked our chief scientific advisor, Dr. Helen Fisher, her thoughts around men and romantic tendencies: “It’s a myth that men aren’t as romantic as women,” she says. “Your romantic streak just depends on your biological makeup.  Based on my research at, I have found that men who are more expressive of estrogen (and there are lots of them, including some football players,) fall in love more regularly than others. These men are also the most creative when it comes to planning romantic activities, and romantic times are particularly meaningful to them.”

Our data has revealed that the most romantic men- the Negotiators- can be found in cities known for their trendy cultures, as San Francisco, CA, Portland, OR, and Austin, TX claim the top 3 spots.

Find the rest of the Top 10 Cities to Find a Romantic Man below:

  1. San Francisco, CA
  2. Portland, OR
  3. Austin, TX
  4. Salt Lake City, UT
  5. Hartford, CT
  6. Boston, MA
  7. Seattle, WA
  8. New York, NY
  9. Los Angeles, CA
  10. Washington D.C.

Do you live in one of these cities? Have you dated one of these romancers (or are you a romantic man)? Tell us in the comments below!

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