August is National Romance Awareness Month, so we here at have discovered the nation’s Top 10 Cities to Find a Romantic Man.  Using our data based on the personality types of American singles, we uncovered the cities with the highest concentrations of passionate single men- and you may be surprised by where they are romancing!

We asked our chief scientific advisor, Dr. Helen Fisher, her thoughts around men and romantic tendencies: “It’s a myth that men aren’t as romantic as women,” she says. “Your romantic streak just depends on your biological makeup.  Based on my research at, I have found that men who are more expressive of estrogen (and there are lots of them, including some football players,) fall in love more regularly than others. These men are also the most creative when it comes to planning romantic activities, and romantic times are particularly meaningful to them.”

Our data has revealed that the most romantic men- the Negotiators- can be found in cities known for their trendy cultures, as San Francisco, CA, Portland, OR, and Austin, TX claim the top 3 spots.

Find the rest of the Top 10 Cities to Find a Romantic Man below:

  1. San Francisco, CA
  2. Portland, OR
  3. Austin, TX
  4. Salt Lake City, UT
  5. Hartford, CT
  6. Boston, MA
  7. Seattle, WA
  8. New York, NY
  9. Los Angeles, CA
  10. Washington D.C.

Do you live in one of these cities? Have you dated one of these romancers (or are you a romantic man)? Tell us in the comments below!

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  • Shelae

    I live in San Francisco and I agree 100%!!

  • kash

    I live in seattle and I havent found him yet

  • Tanya Hardy

    I live in DC and no I have not found anyone!!!!!

  • Nice girl looking for a guy

    I gave lived in Portland for over 16 years and I’d say the most common complaint from single attractive women are “where are the single men?” There seems to be a shortage of available nice guys and too many women looking for one.

    I’d love to know how they compiled this list.

  • Kangxi

    Nice Post!

  • Demara Albert

    what aboutt the men in the the south other than Texas

  • Carmelcup88

    You left Las Vegas off the list! When I went to Vegas in August,it was raining men!

  • Misty

    I live in Dallas. I’m a sweet southern, country girl and just wish I could find that southern cowboy. I guess he only exists in the romance novels.

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    i need a lade, that will live with me for ever

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